OPINION: Of a Misconception Against Social Media Validation

Media Validation

Over time, I have often been advised to stop posting my wins on social media platforms. While some folks base their arguments on the fear of the "evil eye," others interpret it as pride, boastfulness, or even outright arrogance. However, I have always found this perception somewhat misguided. In a digital age where social media has become an extension of our daily lives, sharing achievements should not automatically be mistaken for seeking validation. Sometimes, a post is simply a celebration of hard work, resilience, and growth.

People rarely question why individuals share their struggles, failures, or moments of vulnerability online. Yet, when someone shares a milestone they have worked tirelessly to achieve, it is often met with criticism and assumptions. Must every success be hidden to appear humble?

The truth is that not every achievement posted online is an attempt to seek applause. For many, it serves as a personal record of progress, a source of motivation to others especially those who doubt themselves or an expression of gratitude for opportunities earned through dedication and sacrifice.

Of course, there is a difference between celebrating accomplishments and constantly seeking approval from others. The former reflects confidence, motivation and self-appreciation; the latter reflects dependency on external validation. Unfortunately, many people fail to distinguish between the two.

Sharing one's wins should not be condemned by default. Rather than viewing every achievement post through the lens of pride, perhaps we should learn to appreciate that everyone has a story behind their success—one that may inspire others to keep pushing toward their own goals.

After all, there is nothing inherently arrogant about being proud of how far you have come.